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Salam.

Kalau saya, I don't think I want anything to change.

All the things that happened to me in the past defines what I am today.

Kalau saya dilahirkan kaya, maybe I won't learn to be humble (I think?).

Kalau saya masa kecil dilahirkan bijak pandai genius, saya takkan dapat a childhood memory, main-main dengan kawan-kawan kat padang masuk hutan dsb sebab kecik2 dah genius sangat sampai menjadi tarikan publisiti, kena appear on the TV, go to college at an early age just to impress people, jadi kebanggaan negara sampai takde masa ngan family langsung.

Kalau tak masuk mrsm dlu, takkan jumpa korang yang gila best, sampai sekarang I takleh lupa hari-hari yang kita lalui, yang masa mula-mula dulu kitorang keje menangis homesick je XD

Kalau saya jadi orang yang disukai ramai, saya rasa saya takleh nak tidur aman malam-malam =.=; It's kinda impossible to think that everyone in the world will like you, I think I might turn even more paranoid than I already am.

Kalau I gi overseas untuk university, I takkan kena expose dengan segala apa yang best kat malaysia ni. Lepas habis sekolah baru free nak jalan-jalan tengok everything that our country has to offer and all the awesome food you can get (saya tak kata gi overseas tak best).

..dan sebagainya.

Kai

if only and only if.

kalau ada one particular thing to change.

honestly, I can't choose. as a human, ordinary one, everytime i faced difficulties, tu la yg aq fikir.

• Bile ssh kena pnjt bukit naek fakulti + lif rosak + menapak ke tingkat 14, aq pk, 'If only my family is richer, xperlu g Uitm, g je Sunway or at best, London School of Business and Finance.'
• When my two lil brothers tu naek tanduk die, aq pk, 'what if my late lil sister still alive?'

but at the end, it come into one conclusion, we can't change things without changing its future.

Lau aq xg uitm, aq xjmpe org2 yg awesome, g kumpul pengalaman2 yg awesome. and etc. altho i realised, lau g tmpt laen, kite jmpe org2 laen and g tmpt2 laen.

Lau aq ubah the passing of my lil sis, i'll never have that two little brothers. not even one.

I totally believe in 'every cloud have its silver lining'. and aq rse, sume org shud believe so. for me, it makes life easier, less stressful and well, u'd be more grateful.

anyway, result spm is one of the last thing i want to change. cuz, if result spm tu better, i might choose a different path. altho accounting and finance is not my choice, recently, i view it differently and i have pride with my course and my future career.

one wish.

Simple. I wish life is so much easier. but, mehhh.... blum msuk working life lg da pk cmtu.

My current wish -> doa : everything goes accordingly.

*barclaysbankwithfiftythousandgbppermonth

my study progress is damn slow~

goodluck peeps. and goodnight.

if..kalau...jika...

Salam rakan2.huhu.



Arini sume dpt result UPSR..congratz tuk yg brjaya..yg kurg brjaya..usaha lagi dik.bru UPSR tu..relax2..
emm...sdg ak lepak2 dlm bilik smntara tgu bihun sup ak msak,ak dduk rmai2 nga kwan2 ak kt ruang tamu.
pastu,ad satu kwan ak tnye..
''eh,kalau ko leh ubah satu bnde dlm hidup ko,ap yg ko nk ubah??''

mse 2 sume cm nga pkir la ap yg nk ubah..
ad kwan 1st ckap : ''ak nk ubh result spm ak..ak nk wt lbih elok,pastu nk fly ke tmpat gmpak2.''
kwan 2nd : '' ak nk ubah mse mohon Mara dlu..ak xnk jadi doktor la..pnt blaja ni.ak nk buka kedai kek''
kawan 3rd : ''ak nk ubah mse ak skola dlu..ak nak luah prasaan ak kt crush ak..klu ak smpat luah,msti ak leh tau die pnh suke ak ke x.''
aku : emm...................


ok..pas bihun dh siap..kitorg mkn sme2..pastu,ad kwan ak tnye..
''klu korg dpt wat 1 wish yg akn jdi knyataan,ap yg korg akn wishkan??''

kawan 1st : ''ha,ni best ni...ak nk jd org yg paling kaya dlm dunia''
kawan 2nd : ''ak lak nk jadi org pling pandai dlm dunia''
kawan 3rd : ak nk jadi org yg disukai ramai dlm dunia''
aku : emmmm.......................* kne pkir elok2 ni.hehe.*


slalunye,bnde2 cmni sllau kite pkir bila kite ditimpa ksusahan ataupun xsuka nga hidup yg kita jalani skrang ni.......tp,sape xnk kn klu leh dpt 1 wish yg leh wat impian korg jd knyataan.
tp,wish tu satu je..so,kne pkir btul2.
lumrah dunia..mnusia slalu je ad je bnde yg die nk wlaupun dh dpt yg terbaik..
so,pngajarannya..kne sntiasa brsyukur..ni pngajaran tuk aku n kite sume...=)

tp kn..kalau la kn korg ad satu wish,ap korg wish eh?n klu ad bnde yg korg leh ubah..ape yg korg nk ubah??hehe..
sekian...=)

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will u marry me..?

Salam

Agak menarik gak la ak baca entry2 korang nh pasal kawen..bout the faith thingy... bout their own life after marriage.. bout trusting someone wholehearteadly ...n mcm2 ag..

I'm not an expert of this but ak jz nk share opinion ak bout this whole marriage things.. ader someone yg agak berilmu bg aku pernah cakap ngn ak yg resepi utk perkahwinan yg bahagia n kekal adalah both of u must have the same goal or matlamat.

apa bende nh?

haha..ak x pndai explain sgt tp it jz like this.. selalu org kahwin psl aper.. cinta? mak bapak suruh? or takut digelar andartu...n mcm2 reason lg..(actually mmg byk reason sbb aper org kawen).. tp pling byk org kawen kerana cinta... so adakah dgn cinta sahaja ckup utk buatkan perkahwinan itu bahagia n kekal..? for me is not as easy as that..mcm zaki cakap kat entry bawah..klu sbb cinta or paras rupa nk kahwin nanti lamer2 kiter akan jdi bosan gak dgn pasangan masing2.. so aper kna mengena dgn matlamat yg ak cakap td...?

For us as a muslim matlamat kiter kahwin adelah utk membina keluarga yg bergerak berpaksikan syariah islam. Maknanyer disini kite kahwin dgn matlamat utk membina keluarga dan mendapat anak2 yg akan dapt membangunkan agama islam dan membawa islam ke puncak kegemilangan mcm zaman nabi muhammad dulu or macam zaman kerajaan abbasiyah (dlm buku sejarah dulu)..

so kiter bukan kahwin sajer2 jer..da bosan cerai..gaduh2 n then cerai.. mcm kiter belajar kat jasin dlu gak..kiter belaja giler2 dgn matlamat nk dapt spm gempak..so tanpa matlamat tu yg jadi x tentu hala tu.. kalaupun spm x gempak at least kiter da cuba sehabis baek dan semampu kiter sbb kiter paham matlamat kiter..

as for marriage when u know ur goal is to built a family that can contribute tu Islam u will try ur hardest utk pastikan yg ur marriage tu x hancur..(tp klu mmg da takdir its ok as long u hav done ur best). Sbb aper kna matlamat berlandaskan islam?...sbb Allah lah yg akan memastikan hubungan kiter dgn org yg tercinta nh kekal dan bahagia...kebanyakan org sekarang kawen bukan bermatlamatkan islam so tu yg jadi gaduh teruk tu...sbb utama tiada keredhaan Allah dlm perkahwinan.....so bile kiter berkahwin berpaksikan dan bermatlamat kan islam masalah mcm da kahwin x ley kejer tu x jadi r..sbb as wife or as a husband u will know what is your top priority..ur life or ur deen?..ha pilih la..for wife klu dgn kerje tu menghalang korang utk mendidik anak utk mengikut landasan agama so korang pikir sendiri r apa jln terbaik yg korang boleh bwat .. for husband if ur ego buatkan korang xley terima yg isteri korang earn more than urself by working n then jadi gaduh.. pls think back what r the money for..isn't it for ur own family as well as a bridge to gain keredhaan allah..

"Dinikahi wanita itu kerana empat perkara; kerana hartanya, keturunannya, kecantikkannya dan agamanya. Maka pilihlah dalam hal keagamaannya. Nescaya beruntunglah kedua-dua tanganmu." (Hadis Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim)

Hal nh samer gak utk perempuan klu nk kahwin ikutlah hadis nh itulah yg sebaik-baiknyer...when u know urself not good enough in deen so try r mantapkan ilmu dgn g kelas agama..join org2 alim..

so apa yg ak nk katerkan ialah perkahwinan atas dasar cinta jer x cukup..kna ader matlamat...sbelum kahwin si suami ngn isteri kna bincang kiter nh kahwin sbb apa? apa matlamat? so bile ader perselisihan paham boleh kiter saling ingat balik matlamat asal kiter kahwin sbb aper...

cintakan bunga akan layu

cintakan manusia akan mati

cintakan Allah ia hakiki...

p/s : panjang plak rasenyer ak tulis..jz want to share my opinion ak xder experience pun kawen2 nh..haha

Kahwin Je La..

Assalamualaikum.Hello. :)

Kahwin ni topik menarik.Memang jadi trend sekarang orang baya2 kita ni kahwin.Kakak aku baya korang, member dia baru je kahwin.And even yang lagi muda daripada kita umur 19 tahun pun kahwin, laki bini sebaya.Tak salah kahwin muda, and in fact tak baik kahwin lambat.

Soalan yang aku rasa menarik untuk dijawab:

1. To ladies, knape nk trust somebody so much that you are jeopardizing your future?

Soal percaya pasangan tak percaya pasangan tu, bagi aku macam ni lah.Kalau kita tak percaya pasangan at the first place lagi, jangan sebut pasal marriage pun lagi baik.No point sebut2 pasal kahwin tapi dalam hati tak percaya sangat pasangan.Better beli insuran mahal2 untuk cover diri sendiri bila jadi ape2 dan tak payah kahwin, hidup sorang2 and be what you wanted to be.

Tapi still, kau tak boleh ganti nilai belaian seorang suami bila kau dah terlantar sakit malam2 seorang diri, kan? :)

2. Knape nk stop working if you met that somebody and got married?

You've to stop working meh? Wajib buat ke? Working moms memang fail ke?

3. Knape some of the ladies trust their marriage will last forever and only death do they apart?

Atuk dan nenek kita are the perfect examples.Am I right? Sampai harini kekal.Cerai pun bercerai mati, in fact bersatu balik dalam syurga nanti InsyaAllah. :)

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Kekal tak kekal sesuatu perkahwinan tu, bergantung pada TARGET ASAL KENAPA KITA BERKAHWIN.

- Kalau sebab seks, lepas kahwin, dah halal, dah dapat seks, then bosan, perasaan akan tawar.Sebab kahwin nak seks je, bukan nak membimbing isteri ke atau menjadi isteri yang baik.Dah dapat seks, so nak buat ape lagi?

- Kalau sebab menyelamatkan si dia daripada orang lain, dah kahwin, si dia jadi milik kita, orang tak boleh rebut lagi dah, then what else? Sampai situ je target kita, dah tak thrill lagi dah, takde lagi cabaran susahnya nak dapatkan si dia tu..

- Kalau sebab paras rupa, si dia cute/handsome, ini lagi teruk.Dah kahwin, jalan2, tengok2 ada lagi yang lagi cute, rasa menyesal. "Ala, nape je tak jumpa yang ni dulu, dia lagi cunnn....".Kahwin sebab nak rupa cantik, ini lah yang kita dapat.Sampai bila hati takkan berasa puas, nak yang lagi baik je.

Prepare ourselves for marriage.Jangan cari contoh yang buruk macam akak bercerai, jiran laki bini bergaduh siang malam, itu akan influence kita yang marriage ni macam ni lah nanti teruknya.Carilah contoh yang terbaik, orang yang kahwin 20 tahun, takpun cari yang baru kahwin tapi sangat lovey-dovey.Cari macam mana untuk maintain marriage, bukan cari contoh buruk marriage ni tak lama lagi bercerai lah ape lah.

So, happy marrying! Hahaha, tak pasal2. :D

marriage

Salam...
Tujuan asal bka blog ni sbb ak nk tukar layout die.tp,ak trtarik nga post psal marriage ni.
haha.btul gak kate Aiman..kite dh 21 kot.dh harus pkir bnde 2.ok,takde la harus.tp,ad la terpikir kan.haha.

ok,this is my response 2 the marriage post.
1.But y, people makes a big deal out of someone who is in her late 20s and yet to be married? 

ok,pndapat ak = tak salah kot bila org mmpersoalkan nape bila umur dh mningkat n tak kwin lg.ak rse,sume pun msti trpikir cmtu gak.bygkan klu ad jiran korg atau cousin korg g kt korg.n korg tnye umur die brape.then die gtau umur die 30 n lum kwin lg.ha,knfirm bnde prtame dlm fkiran korg ialah..'oh,30 ke,,nape die tak kwin lg eh?' btul x?sdikit sbnyak,msti bnde 2 dipikirgak kn.so,normal kot pkir cmtu.it's human nature.

2.To ladies, knape nk trust somebody so much that you are jeopardizing you future?

Ok,tuk yg ni,ak cm tak brape stuju kot.bg ak 'trust' is a powerful tool in our relationship.sbb klu takde trust,cmne sesuatu relationship 2 nk work out?bknla sampai dia wat silap dpn mate pun,still trust lagi.tapi,trust 2 pnting sgt2 dlm relationship ni.klau dh terang2 die wat silap kn,takkan nk percaye lg kot..
“We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone - but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy”

3.Knape nk stop working if you met that somebody and got married?
Knape some of the ladies trust their marriage will last forever and only death do they apart?
If things are not working out, sape nk support your residual life nanti or the life of that marriage products  the kids? 

Ok,tuk ayat yg 1st tu,about nape nk stop working pas got married sume 2.bg ak,lain org,lain la planning die.mgkin ad sstgah prempuan rse nk jadi lebih berkerjaya,then achieve bnyak lagi kejayaan.tapi,lain org,lain perspektif die.seriusly,cam ak nye planning,ak tak nak kje truk2,pas abis studi,ak nk kwin.then ak nk kje kjap2 je.then,ak nk dduk rumah,ak nak layan husband ak,siapkan mkn minum die,then,bile die balik kje,ak dh ad kt rumah,klau die tension2 blik kje,ak leh dgr crita psal krjaya die.then,ajar anak2 wat homework.haha.mmg mcam drama kn..tapi,ak mmg nak cmtu.ak taknak kje susah2.haha.so,msing2 ad planning msing2.

then,tuk ayat kedua lak,mmg la stiap gurl atau mksud aku psangan yg dah kwin akan trust dorg nye marriage will last forever and only death do they apart...obviously,klu ko takde keyakinan yg marriage ko akn kekal smpai akhir hayat,then..why u get married at the 1st place??

n tuk ayat last 2,mmg la..ad stengah marriage yg ad msalah.n bab sape nk tggung klu marriage tu tak work out,bnde tu sume kite kne pkir sblum kwin lg.kne la ad simpanan.n pasangan tu msing2 kne pkir tntang mse depan.dduk n bincang sme2.that is what marriage are all about rite.1stly,commitment,trust,planning for the future,n insyaAllah live happily forever.n doa pling pnting.doa ialah snjata pling kuat bg hamba2Nya..insyaAllah,kalau kite doa,sume bnde akan brjalan lancar.insyaAllah..

ni just ak nye opinion je...klu ad pape silap n salah.sori.ni pndapat ak je. =)

oh ya,ak dh tukar layout blog ni.saje2 je.hehe.klu korg ad design2 yg korg suke,gtau ak.smntara ak free ni,leh ak wat.hehe.salam.=)

p/s : sori.ak tukar layout ni lain skit design die.pape kang,korg gtau je eh.ngantuk sgt2 dh ni.nite.salam.huhu.

-adilah-

merry age

"thank god for mom and dad
For sticking two together
'Cause we don't know hooowww..."

-Hey Ya by Outcast

salam.

ahaa, walaupun aku xberapa minat nak bincang marriage as a whole tapi aku tertarik ngan entry bawah ni.

orang2 tua time wedding suka la kata ngusik n cucuk jarum kata "u're next!"  yelah maybe saja2 suka tapi terasa hati gak cmne kan.. tapi xpe, nanti kalau ada funeral ke apa kita leh tease dorang balik cakap " you're next!" >,<" hehe.. (kidding je nih, jangan buat btol2)

bagi aku, maybe ada some marriages yang tak berapa nak bahagia. sebab life bukan mcm fairytale yang tamat bila princess da kawen ngan prince lepas dapat bunuh naga. maybe time yang korang nampak marriage life yang tgh tunggang langgang tu bila dorang having their rough time, but after that.. mungkin dugaan tu gak yg buat dorang akn lebih matang n much much better for their spouse.

The first is not always the best, unless u're lucky. Tapi brp org je dlm dunia ni yg boleh lucky slalu n dapat apa yg dorang rancang dan nak. dalam cerita mitos dongeng Romeo and Juliet pun (ke apa genre ni?) Juliet bukannya Romeo's first love. If you're someone's first love then you're lucky, but if you're someone's last love you're even more luckier, apatah lagi someone's first and last love. Tapi, halalkan 'cinta-la-sgt' korang tu dengan jalan yang betul. istikharah banyak2. it starts from there. kalau solat pun tak cukup, macam mana nak imam kan bini ngan anak2..

aku setuju nak kawen kena ada knowledge, komitmen, and love alone bukan boleh kasi anak2 korang makan pon. jangan becinta bagai nak rak sangat, nanti dah kawen lain pulak. besederhana lah. jangan jadi selfish, sebelum start relationship, terima orang seadanya, for the guys, cari perempuan yang rasa2 boleh jaga family, mak bapak korang skali nanti.. jaga hati, jaga pasaan. for the girls, find a guy yang family dia ko leh sayang macam family sendiri juga, treat his mom like ur own mother. fikir masa depan, fikir anak-anak korang, bukan fikir korang punya cintan cintun skang je lepastu sepah2 anak merata2 bila something bad happen tu yang turn out jadi bohsia and mat rempit. they lack of love,because you're selfish, tak nak pegang komitmen and lack of knowledge.

so start from now, try sikit2, build yourself dulu,cari ilmu, jadi orang yang baik, orang yang beriman insyaallah because the children will come from both of you. tak suruh ko jadi perfect baru leh kawen, tapi as long as both of u you nak sama2 belajar, that's even much more sweeter dari ko belaja sorang2. we have to complete each other lah, dari semua aspek. tak semestinya kena sama, tapi kena melengkapi lah. for example my dad suka main golf, my mom boleh teman pergi driving range pukul bola sama2. my mom suka tanam pokok bunga, my dad boleh teman pergi nursery or pameran bunga sama2 sekali jugak. then they will develope the same hobby, or at least pon, bagi support and tolerate each other.

and the most important thing is, i think, the aim of life. kalau sayang macam mana pun tapi kalau aim tak sama, susah. let say he wants her wife to be fully housewife, jaga anak2.. takecare every detail of the household while She is very ambitious and wont give up the job. kan masalah. tapi the most important is, aim kita bukan kat dunia je, aim for the next life also, insyaallah.  the key to happiness is doing the thing you like with the one you love =)

and, ada banyak je marriage kat luar sana yang bahagia sampai mati. why do we keep looking at the negative side untuk jadikan pengajaran.. look at our parents je, thru thick and thin, they're still together insyaallah sampai mati. and one time, mak aku penah cakap - she hopes that my dad dies first so that she can take care of him till his last breath. kalau aku, aku cakap, aku nak mati dulu sebab tak nak tengok orang yang aku sayang tinggalkan aku *dang* see how selfish i am. tapi sejak tu perspektif aku da berubah. -.-" so please have faith.

okay,jom. ada kelas.sorry kalau tulisan ni berterabo sangat. otak aku jem sket. oh btw, no offense,entry ni bukan nak mengugat sapa2,, ni my personal opinion gak je k.tata

Marriage.

Warning : This is strictly personal.


Pernah x, korg ke majlis wedding, and org tnye 'bile nk kawen?' or etc. well, that q is neither for you all nor me, i'm not even 21. Tp utk kakak2 korg ke, abg2 ke, cousin2 ke..


Honestly, aku rse, is that q necessary? 
Is marriage our ultimate goal? 
Knape org x tnye bile nak kaya? ok, this is wrong. 
Knape org x tnye bile nk g umrah o haji?


I'm not saying marriage is useless or something.
But y, people makes a big deal out of someone who is in her late 20s and yet to be married? 
Ok. I'm actually quite unsatisfied when org tnye soalan tu kat perempuan je. 
Marriage is women's ultimate goal? 
Life has more to offer. to both men and women.


This post really makes me feel as if I am being deniable to some of the Islamic principles.
Tp, I've seen a lot of marriage breakdown that I don't think I want to go thru.
One of my sibling's marriage life were sucks and it practically affects all of the household's life. 
Including me. and thats y I honestly kinda prejudice about the opposite sex. 


To men or boys that are going to be one, that might be reading this. 
There are other ways to protect your ego than by ruining a women's life. 
Earning more doesn't mean being disrespectful. And socializing doesn't mean betraying. 


To ladies, knape nk trust somebody so much that you are jeopardizing you future?
Knape nk stop working if you met that somebody and got married? 
Knape some of the ladies trust their marriage will last forever and only death do they apart? 
If things are not working out, sape nk support your residual life nanti or the life of that marriage products  the kids? 


To conclude, I do believe in everlasting marriage. I really do. I've witness a lot.
I just hope that people do not trust the other people more than they trust themselves. 
And marriage involves education too. 


To begin a marriage, you don't need love. You need knowledge.


I'll appreciate feedbacks. Actually that is the reason this post is here. 
But I am grateful enough for you to read this. 
Thanks!


This post is kinda ridiculous for our age.