Salam...
Tujuan asal bka blog ni sbb ak nk tukar layout die.tp,ak trtarik nga post psal marriage ni.
haha.btul gak kate Aiman..kite dh 21 kot.dh harus pkir bnde 2.ok,takde la harus.tp,ad la terpikir kan.haha.
ok,this is my response 2 the marriage post.
1.But y, people makes a big deal out of someone who is in her late 20s and yet to be married?
ok,pndapat ak = tak salah kot bila org mmpersoalkan nape bila umur dh mningkat n tak kwin lg.ak rse,sume pun msti trpikir cmtu gak.bygkan klu ad jiran korg atau cousin korg g kt korg.n korg tnye umur die brape.then die gtau umur die 30 n lum kwin lg.ha,knfirm bnde prtame dlm fkiran korg ialah..'oh,30 ke,,nape die tak kwin lg eh?' btul x?sdikit sbnyak,msti bnde 2 dipikirgak kn.so,normal kot pkir cmtu.it's human nature.
2.To ladies, knape nk trust somebody so much that you are jeopardizing you future?
Ok,tuk yg ni,ak cm tak brape stuju kot.bg ak 'trust' is a powerful tool in our relationship.sbb klu takde trust,cmne sesuatu relationship 2 nk work out?bknla sampai dia wat silap dpn mate pun,still trust lagi.tapi,trust 2 pnting sgt2 dlm relationship ni.klau dh terang2 die wat silap kn,takkan nk percaye lg kot..
“We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone - but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy”
3.Knape nk stop working if you met that somebody and got married?
Knape some of the ladies trust their marriage will last forever and only death do they apart?
If things are not working out, sape nk support your residual life nanti or the life of that marriage products the kids?
Ok,tuk ayat yg 1st tu,about nape nk stop working pas got married sume 2.bg ak,lain org,lain la planning die.mgkin ad sstgah prempuan rse nk jadi lebih berkerjaya,then achieve bnyak lagi kejayaan.tapi,lain org,lain perspektif die.seriusly,cam ak nye planning,ak tak nak kje truk2,pas abis studi,ak nk kwin.then ak nk kje kjap2 je.then,ak nk dduk rumah,ak nak layan husband ak,siapkan mkn minum die,then,bile die balik kje,ak dh ad kt rumah,klau die tension2 blik kje,ak leh dgr crita psal krjaya die.then,ajar anak2 wat homework.haha.mmg mcam drama kn..tapi,ak mmg nak cmtu.ak taknak kje susah2.haha.so,msing2 ad planning msing2.
then,tuk ayat kedua lak,mmg la stiap gurl atau mksud aku psangan yg dah kwin akan trust dorg nye marriage will last forever and only death do they apart...obviously,klu ko takde keyakinan yg marriage ko akn kekal smpai akhir hayat,then..why u get married at the 1st place??
n tuk ayat last 2,mmg la..ad stengah marriage yg ad msalah.n bab sape nk tggung klu marriage tu tak work out,bnde tu sume kite kne pkir sblum kwin lg.kne la ad simpanan.n pasangan tu msing2 kne pkir tntang mse depan.dduk n bincang sme2.that is what marriage are all about rite.1stly,commitment,trust,planning for the future,n insyaAllah live happily forever.n doa pling pnting.doa ialah snjata pling kuat bg hamba2Nya..insyaAllah,kalau kite doa,sume bnde akan brjalan lancar.insyaAllah..
ni just ak nye opinion je...klu ad pape silap n salah.sori.ni pndapat ak je. =)
oh ya,ak dh tukar layout blog ni.saje2 je.hehe.klu korg ad design2 yg korg suke,gtau ak.smntara ak free ni,leh ak wat.hehe.salam.=)
p/s : sori.ak tukar layout ni lain skit design die.pape kang,korg gtau je eh.ngantuk sgt2 dh ni.nite.salam.huhu.
-adilah-
Tujuan asal bka blog ni sbb ak nk tukar layout die.tp,ak trtarik nga post psal marriage ni.
haha.btul gak kate Aiman..kite dh 21 kot.dh harus pkir bnde 2.ok,takde la harus.tp,ad la terpikir kan.haha.
ok,this is my response 2 the marriage post.
1.But y, people makes a big deal out of someone who is in her late 20s and yet to be married?
ok,pndapat ak = tak salah kot bila org mmpersoalkan nape bila umur dh mningkat n tak kwin lg.ak rse,sume pun msti trpikir cmtu gak.bygkan klu ad jiran korg atau cousin korg g kt korg.n korg tnye umur die brape.then die gtau umur die 30 n lum kwin lg.ha,knfirm bnde prtame dlm fkiran korg ialah..'oh,30 ke,,nape die tak kwin lg eh?' btul x?sdikit sbnyak,msti bnde 2 dipikirgak kn.so,normal kot pkir cmtu.it's human nature.
2.To ladies, knape nk trust somebody so much that you are jeopardizing you future?
Ok,tuk yg ni,ak cm tak brape stuju kot.bg ak 'trust' is a powerful tool in our relationship.sbb klu takde trust,cmne sesuatu relationship 2 nk work out?bknla sampai dia wat silap dpn mate pun,still trust lagi.tapi,trust 2 pnting sgt2 dlm relationship ni.klau dh terang2 die wat silap kn,takkan nk percaye lg kot..
“We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone - but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy”
3.Knape nk stop working if you met that somebody and got married?
Knape some of the ladies trust their marriage will last forever and only death do they apart?
If things are not working out, sape nk support your residual life nanti or the life of that marriage products the kids?
Ok,tuk ayat yg 1st tu,about nape nk stop working pas got married sume 2.bg ak,lain org,lain la planning die.mgkin ad sstgah prempuan rse nk jadi lebih berkerjaya,then achieve bnyak lagi kejayaan.tapi,lain org,lain perspektif die.seriusly,cam ak nye planning,ak tak nak kje truk2,pas abis studi,ak nk kwin.then ak nk kje kjap2 je.then,ak nk dduk rumah,ak nak layan husband ak,siapkan mkn minum die,then,bile die balik kje,ak dh ad kt rumah,klau die tension2 blik kje,ak leh dgr crita psal krjaya die.then,ajar anak2 wat homework.haha.mmg mcam drama kn..tapi,ak mmg nak cmtu.ak taknak kje susah2.haha.so,msing2 ad planning msing2.
then,tuk ayat kedua lak,mmg la stiap gurl atau mksud aku psangan yg dah kwin akan trust dorg nye marriage will last forever and only death do they apart...obviously,klu ko takde keyakinan yg marriage ko akn kekal smpai akhir hayat,then..why u get married at the 1st place??
n tuk ayat last 2,mmg la..ad stengah marriage yg ad msalah.n bab sape nk tggung klu marriage tu tak work out,bnde tu sume kite kne pkir sblum kwin lg.kne la ad simpanan.n pasangan tu msing2 kne pkir tntang mse depan.dduk n bincang sme2.that is what marriage are all about rite.1stly,commitment,trust,planning for the future,n insyaAllah live happily forever.n doa pling pnting.doa ialah snjata pling kuat bg hamba2Nya..insyaAllah,kalau kite doa,sume bnde akan brjalan lancar.insyaAllah..
ni just ak nye opinion je...klu ad pape silap n salah.sori.ni pndapat ak je. =)
oh ya,ak dh tukar layout blog ni.saje2 je.hehe.klu korg ad design2 yg korg suke,gtau ak.smntara ak free ni,leh ak wat.hehe.salam.=)
p/s : sori.ak tukar layout ni lain skit design die.pape kang,korg gtau je eh.ngantuk sgt2 dh ni.nite.salam.huhu.
-adilah-
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